Oh I had to laugh when a friend showed me this recently. She’d spotted it on a car filled with four bachelors when she’d been at a friend’s braai and the fleeing stick men family just made me giggle. For the uninitiated, these car stickers have become very popular in Joburg where some people use them … Continue reading »
Guilt: Worse than its Green-Eyed Sister
Which green-eyed sister? Why Jealousy of course. I always imagine Guilt and Jealousy are two evil sisters, drifting around the world like something from a fairytale, waiting to prey on human beings and especially on parents too. I think every “type” of parent feels guilt, whether you’re a stay-at-home Mum, one who works or a … Continue reading »
Quiet Please!
I am a BIG fan of this book. I like to be Quiet. I am an introvert. When I tell friends or family that I’m more of an introvert, they all scoff and disagree. Introverts get a bad rap. They’re painted as unsociable beings, forever holed up in their homes or libraries as they peer … Continue reading »
Nesting 101
Spurred on by my recent baby shower, the nesting instinct has just begun to set in – with a vengeance. For those who haven’t gone through this bizarre experience, I’m going to attempt to explain it in a few simple sentences: You will go missing for long stretches of time and can usually be found … Continue reading »
Second Baby Showers: unnecessary or fun?
When you have your first child, (if you’re lucky enough) you get very spoilt by work colleagues, family and friends and you enjoy every minute of it. I think baby showers have a dual purpose at this specific stage in your life: they’re held to celebrate a very exciting milestone but they’re also very useful … Continue reading »
Lightning Never Strikes Twice…apparently.
I’m not a fan of those blogs which detail the minutiae of people’s lives and complain about the latest disasters to befall them. So I try not write like that myself, especially when I view my wonderful life in perspective to other less fortunate people’s. But still, it is my life and lately it’s been … Continue reading »
Turning Off the News and Feeding the Birds
These past few weeks in South Africa have been terrible ones, and the news has been filled with murder, abuse and savagery. It makes me feel sick. And very sad. But the other part I’m beginning to hate is the relentless hunger us humans have to delve into the dirty details and then how quick … Continue reading »
Facebook/Babybook
Facebook used to be cool. It used to feature photos of crazy nights out, who was hooking up with who and which exotic places our friends had visited. Now it features baby pictures. Lots of baby pictures. Babies in the womb, babies being born (literally: I know someone who’s husband posted pics of their C-section … Continue reading »
RAPE
It’s impossible to write about anything else today other than the word that’s been shouted out on radio stations, talked about on Twitter and flung across the pages of newspapers, today more than most other recent days: RAPE. It’s such an ugly word, for one of the most despicable acts a human can commit. If … Continue reading »
Being Sick: Not as much fun as it used to be
I’m still sick. Now when I say I’m sick, I’m fully aware that I’m not REALLY sick, like some people are, and I am very grateful for my overall health (ever since my Mom died I appreciate it a little more, every day). But that doesn’t stop a certain amount of feeling sorry for myself … Continue reading »